Ask Texas – My New Husband Got A New Job Without Telling Me A Word!

Buzz Question - I don’t know? Maybe you might want to tell me. So my HUSBAND comes home the other day and says well, I got a new job! Yep, just out of the blue. Mind you, we are newlyweds and got married about 9 months ago and he has never said anything to me about wanting another job. And I’m more disturbed by the fact that he didn’t tell me anything about his plans at a new job. Didn’t even know he was looking. I’m your wife! And of course, he doesn’t think it was a big deal? Arghhhhhh! I mean, he should have told me, right?

HERE IS WHAT TEXAS HAD TO SAY ABOUT IT

Valenzuela
Sometimes opportunities come by and you have to jump on them or he’s very impulsive.

Beatriz
Just be happy he has a job. Just speak to him about why he got the new job. Maybe it was a better opportunity, but honestly it’s not a big deal! Some men don’t even want to work nowadays!

Christopher
Do you work? Have you ever taken an interest in his work? Maybe he needed it, otherwise, why tell you if he felt you never cared?

Sammy
Should have told ya, but a man is a provider, and if the need to change jobs, for the right reason, comes up, then you take it. Support your spouse no matter what

Cindy
Yes, he should’ve mentioned he wanted a new job, but if he wasn’t happy at his old job and he couldn’t let this opportunity pass him by, he probably had to jump on it. Now I would’ve had a big problem if he would’ve quit his job and not have another job lined up. Now that would’ve ticked me off. Just make sure and tell him in the future, you would appreciate him giving you a heads up about him wanting to switch jobs.

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